SOUL'E RHYMEZ WORLD

many of us loves to be in relationship, but not too many of us know that before we go into a relationship, we must have what to give, not just what to give, or what we think our partner needs, but exactly what they want and ask for. I did not learn this until very recently. A few days ago, I was talking with a friend of mine, who told me she started a relationship, not up to a month ago. I asked her if she would have agreed we date, if I have asked her out and she said yes, then I wondered why she agreed to the other guy, despite she liked me. The answer was simple, and she provided it while I was still thinking. She does not want money or gold, she does not even want to date a god that Soul’e Rhymez is, and she was interested in that thing which I don’t always give to women: “time & care”. By the time she mentioned it, it occurred to me that even if I had competed with the guy for her, he will still win her over me, regardless of how much she loves me – love is not ...

In most parts of Africa, a woman that loves a man and asks him out is cheap and places no value on herself – she is a slut. Most men have not also failed to take advantage of this faulty mentality too, treating with disdain any woman that shows her love for them or even ask them out. It is a shame that in 21 st century, when everything has experienced turn around, this hasn’t changed yet.   It is more shame that most women, who claim to be feminists, have not been able to see to this, yet they hope to be equal with men.  If asking a man you love out makes you feel small and cheap, it is an indication of loss of or lack of self–esteem. If asking a woman he love out does not make a man feel less than he is, regardless of women’s response and doing so makes a woman feel cheap and less than she really is, then the man is superior. It means that such woman’s reputation is inferiorly attached to and determined by man and the society.    A modern wom...