THE MODERN WOMAN: WHY WOMEN THAT ASK MEN OUT ARE EXCEPTIONAL
In most
parts of Africa, a woman that loves a man and asks him out is cheap and places
no value on herself – she is a slut.
Most men
have not also failed to take advantage of this faulty mentality too, treating
with disdain any woman that shows her love for them or even ask them out.
It is a shame
that in 21st century, when everything has experienced turn around,
this hasn’t changed yet.
It is more
shame that most women, who claim to be feminists, have not been able to see to
this, yet they hope to be equal with men.
If asking a man you love out makes you feel small and cheap, it is an
indication of loss of or lack of self–esteem.
If asking a
woman he love out does not make a man feel less than he is, regardless of
women’s response and doing so makes a woman feel cheap and less than she really
is, then the man is superior. It means that such woman’s reputation is
inferiorly attached to and determined by man and the society.
A modern woman
is one who is able to stand by what she believes and get what she demands of
life, regardless of the odds against her and how the society feels about her
choice.
It is a mark
of inferiority, lack of definite purpose and fighting spirit, for any woman to
watch the man she loves take another woman, because she can’t propose to him
first.
A modern
woman in love will ask the man she loves out, show him love, retain her respect
and secure love from him in return.
If you
cannot do this, then you are not a modern woman, you are inferior and should
have lived in 10th century instead.
If the fear
of losing your worth and be mistreated will make you refuse to ask the man you
love out or confess your love for him, you have only shown an evidence of
ignorance of love and that you can’t stand for what you believe in life - it is
a sign of mediocrity. This does not mean you can’t achieve success, but it will
be nothing extra-ordinary.
I once
stated that I will most likely marry a woman that ask me out and shows her love
for me first, among other women, even those that I ask out. Here is my reason: if a woman could go against all odds, all the
norms and ask me, a NOBODY out, because she loves me, it is a unique trait,
which shows that she knows and can always go for what she wants in life,
against all odds. Such will be good for our union. It shows she is a woman with
a mind of her own.
Don’t get it
all twisted.
It is not all
the women that ask a man out knows what they want in life and go for them, but
such trait, if utilized in other works of life, is a quality that can’t be
bought with money – it is a rare and unique quality.
Women who are
bold enough to ask the man they love out, never feels ashamed to admit loving a
man and never hide their love feelings, have the greatest potentials, among
other women, to become exceptional.
Although,
misuse of this quality can mean, majority of them will become victims of their
great potentials. Evidences are here and everywhere.
Does asking
a man you love out or admitting to love him reduce your worth? No! It is a
trait of modern and superior women.
But how can
one not be a victim of such decision and be treated like trash instead?
The answer
to all of this is in the yet to be finished book “THE MORDERN WOMAN”. This is
just a tip from the gold the book contains.
Although it
is still in the written stage and can’t be booked for now, if you love to keep
in touch and be updated about it, call or text Stephen on +2348163800077.
You might
think you do not need it, but your daughter or wife might need it for mental
and personality upgrade, which will help your family.
Thank you…
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