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WHY BEING IN LOVE IS BETTER THAN BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP (II)

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  If you are in a romantic relationship and sincerely love and feel at peace with another person, then you need to reconsider the future of the relationship even if you are engaged to be married. Check if that other person sincerely loves you. Do not resist the person, but avoid cheating on your current partner.   If the other person loves you sincerely and you feel the same way towards him/her, much so that you do not have to hide your weaknesses from each other or lie about being perfect, then end your current relationship. However, before you do that, be sure what you feel is love and that the person loves you as much as you feel too.   Being in love is much more important than being in a relationship, but staying committed is more important than being in love. However, it is difficult and near impossible to stay committed to a person that one does not truly love. So in the end, being in love is more important than being in a relationship and being committed. ...

WHY BEING IN LOVE IS BETTER THAN BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP (I)

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  The love between parents often extends to their children and so is the animosity between them. I suffered a lack of parental love growing up, owing largely to the fact that my parents did not love each other. They were never together.   I don't want to do the same to my kids - I want to love and care for them. I thought the best way I can change that was to get married to someone I love and who love me as much as I love her. All I wanted was one life with one woman and let it go at that.   My desire to allow my kids to have love from both parents is among the things that made me realize that being in love is more important than being in a romantic relationship. I am well above 30 years old, and I am not in a relationship. Not only that, I have not had a romantic relationship for a long time.   Does it mean women are not available? Far from it. So why am I not in a relationship despite I have written books on romantic relationships and helped a lot of pe...