WHY YOU SHOULD TAKE A BREAK FROM YOURSELF
A few days ago I wrote a poem titled “Victim of Love” of the stanzas of the poem goes thus: Something was lost in me, I did not know what it was, I searched north, south, west and east, Yet I can’t find it, I am empty, something important is lost, Love is gone, and away from me! The above stanza of the poem described my exact feeling that night I went to see some of my clan after months without communication, I was empty, I just really didn’t know why. After seeing my people, the emptiness was still there, so went to a bar. Of all things, going to a bar seems wrong at that time, but I was clueless, I didn’t know what I wanted: something was lost in me; I did not know what it was. One of the call-girls at the bar came to meet me as a prospective customer, staying in the bar made me one. I told her, “listen, I do not want sex, what I need is love”. Oh yes! I discovered what was lost in me: Love! But I was in the wrong place to seek love and I was demanding it f...