WHY BEING IN LOVE IS BETTER THAN BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP (II)
If you
are in a romantic relationship and sincerely love and feel at peace with
another person, then you need to reconsider the future of the relationship even
if you are engaged to be married. Check if that other person sincerely loves
you. Do not resist the person, but avoid cheating on your current partner.
If the
other person loves you sincerely and you feel the same way towards him/her, much
so that you do not have to hide your weaknesses from each other or lie about
being perfect, then end your current relationship. However, before you do that,
be sure what you feel is love and that the person loves you as much as you feel
too.
Being
in love is much more important than being in a relationship, but staying
committed is more important than being in love. However, it is difficult and near
impossible to stay committed to a person that one does not truly love. So in
the end, being in love is more important than being in a relationship and being
committed.
If you
are in a relationship with a person that you do not love, end the relationship.
Don't cheat. End it! If you cheat on your current partner, you will lose either
way. Make the big decision, end it!
It is
better to be single because you love truly than to get married to someone you
don't love. Marriage is not the ultimate of a love life, emotional stability,
peace of mind and happiness are. However,
these qualities are available only to partners couples that sincerely love each
other whether they are married or not.
I
respect women that are faithful to their romantic relationships, but I respect
women who are in love with their partners more. If I ask a woman out and she
says she is in a relationship, I still feel I have a chance with her, but if
she tells me she is in love with her partner, I just close the chapter. This is
because I understand that being in love is stronger and more important than
being in a relationship.
For the
same reason, if I am in a relationship with a lady and she is in love with
another person, I let her go without grudges if she is sincere, but I will be
offended if she cheats on me with him. The foundation of a romantic
relationship is love, if it is not there, then it is destined for a crash no
matter how long it lasts.
Written by Soul'e Rhymez
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