HOW REFUSING TO FALL IN LOVE CAN MAKE YOU UNSUCCESSFUL


If you have had any situation wherein you loved someone so much, despite the person was not your spec,  and you could not tell why the feeling came, then God has spoken to you. If you did not express the feeling, you have disobeyed Him.

 

God speaks to everyone, regardless of their religions and one of the commonest ways he does it is through love. If you express the love you feel to a person or persons, even if it makes no sense to do so, then you would have done the will of God without hearing him speak.

 

The reason why many people never become great in anything is that they are specialists at disregarding and sometimes suppressing their urge to love whenever it does not seem to benefit them. They will never express their love to those they feel it for, except it makes sense to the public at large,  or they are sure of being loved in return.

 

Suppressing the urge to love for any reason at all may explain why there are more successful men known to civilization than women. We celebrate women’s success more because they are unusual. The unusual successes of women are inseparably attached to their tendency to always suppress their urge to love. It has very little to do with gender discrimination.

 

God is love, so anytime you disobey the urge to show love to a person, you disobey God hereby move one step closer to mediocrity, and a thousand steps away from greatness. Love does not care about your spec; or class just as God does not. This is why I do not have a spec for a romantic relationship.

 

In my books MOTHERFUCKERS CODES & FATHERFUCKERS CODES, I stated that love may make you stupid, in fact, extremely stupid, but even in your stupidity, you are wiser and smarter than those that never genuinely fall in love.

 

This came from my understanding that God often speaks to people by putting the love of certain people in their hearts. Agreeing with the feeling, no matter how stupid it may be often mean greatness for people in whose hearts it is housed.

 

Some of my greatest books were made possible because I showed love to people as I had the urge for, even when it made no sense to do so. My book titled HOW TO BECOME A GENIUS THROUGH SEX, which now supplies the best of sex education any adult may want was an example of a blessing that came because I did not withhold an urge to love.

 

Many years ago, I saw and fell in love with a 17 years old lady. It was the first time I had fallen in love with someone that young and by all standards, she was not my spec. However, the love came as it did and I did not resist it. I waited for her to be 18 before I made my intention known. She rejected me but my feeling did not change.

 

However, after a few months,  she pitched a tent with someone very close to me for a reason I did not know. They were all loved-up, doing all sorts. I was hurt and took certain drastic actions, which may have ruined me for my entire life. I struggled to forgive her and the other guy but I eventually did.

 

By that time, I had begun writing HOW TO BECOME A GENIUS THROUGH SEX, but despite I have made close to 6 years of research, I could not go beyond chapter two of a book that is now up to 400 pages. I got my breakthrough after I decided to forgive the girl and the other guy. The inspiration came so fast, that I completed the book within a few months.

 

The bridge builder was my decision to love the girl and show it, and out of that love came forgiveness that gave me access to the faculty of infinite intelligence. If I have said she was not my pec and ignored the feeling, I would not have written and completed that book. Let it pass the message to you that to resist the urge to love is to resist greatness.

 

Greatness is always encapsulated in love.

 

Written by Soul’e Rhymez

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