Why Ladies between Ages 16 and 18 Should Not Be involved in Intimate Relationship




The destruction of the love life of many grown women today, some of who are now single mothers and are unable to attract the right partner began from ages 16 to 19 and even 20.
The majority of women go into relationship at this age without knowing exactly what they want, that is not all; they do not even know what intimate relationship entails.

I have carried out an extensive research on this by observing and talking to tens of young women between ages 16 and 20 who are in intimate relationship already, within a period of two years and have found out that all  of them do not know what they want from such relationship.

Majority of them got involved because they do not want to be lonely, some fell for the pressure from men, due to their inability to say no, and the a larger number of them do so, because they just want to feel belonged and loved. They literally do not just want to be lonely.

I once wrote that women must be mentally ready for intimate relationship from age 16, this is true, but no one should confuse it to mean that women must be involved in intimate relationship at that age. In fact, no woman is qualified for intimate relationship, regardless of her age, until she understands the purpose for it. This is where mental readiness comes to play.

The majority of young women who go into intimate relationship without understanding the purpose for it usually have their love life ruined as a result of inability to control and put to right usage, the influence of the experience they got from it. This is easily explained by the fact that without knowing the purpose of a thing, abuse is inevitable.

Worst still, most of them involved in sexual acts in these periods without any understanding of what they are doing. They just want to taste it, they rush in and without the right understanding, they become victims of their acts, and most times blaming men for their errors.

In some cases, the parents are to blame for this. But the truth is that they cannot give what they do not have. However, you should know that your destiny is no longer in your parent’s hands once you turn 18. After 18, anything that happens to you is your responsibility.

Moreover, the age between 16 and 19 is a period wherein self-discovery and development must be your primary aim. In developing yourself, it is very important you search for the right education on Intimate relationship, before you go into one.

Sadly, your Pastor and parents may not have it, but there is good news for you. We have it, it is: THE ART OF PERSONAL BRANDING – (For Females Seeking Serious Relationship). This will not only help you understand what intimate relationship entails, it will also help you to attract the right partner.

Registration is ongoing, and it is just #10, 000.  However, if you pay before January 1st, 2019, you will get 70% discount.  This means you will have to pay just #3, 000 instead of#10, 000.

To enjoy this discount kindly call Stephen on 08163800077 on or before 1st of January to make your payment.

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