DOES YOUR EX STILL CONTROL YOUR LIFE?
From research and study of
hundreds of people in the past four years, I have discovered that the majority
of people wish their exes and those that rejected them bad. Moreover, they seem
to always have a lot to prove to them.
In majority of instances, the successes
of their exes make them feel like failures.
I often see many intended to be
funny, but stupid jokes about hurting ones ex, just to prove one can do well
without them and that they made mistakes leaving them.
These jokes actually explain the
exact state of mind of the majority of people.
Oftentimes I see people who have
sworn never come into terms with their exes; they see them as enemies and never
want to have anything to do with them, no matter how little.
This sort of decision makes me
question their sanity.
Why do people often see their
exes as their enemies?
The answer is obvious, to create
alibis for their unwillingness to work on their own weaknesses, which their
exes' misfortunes will help achieve, even if they too achieve nothing fantastic
afterwards.
Seeing their exes do well in
life, especially having a great intimate relationship and getting married is
the majority of people's most terrible imagination.
They stuck them always and the
news that they are still single makes them really happy.
There are many people who do
this, but their predicaments are not apparent.
Moreover, if you ask them about
their exes, they may tell you "I wish him/her well," but they really
do not. Their stupidity has transformed into envy for their exes.
One of the major psychological
causes of this phenomenon was well analyzed in Acrimony; From a Psychologist's
Perspective.
But only those that read it will
get the knowledge it conveys, if at all they are willing.
In the main, if you feel bad
about your ex so much that you can't support him/her and celebrate his/her
success wholeheartedly, believe me, YOU HAVE A SERIOUS PROBLEM. I mean a VERY
SERIOUS ONE.
It does not only show that you
are living with the wrong mixture of emotions, it also shows that you are a
living waste.
You lack the basic understanding
of yourself - moreover, such is an evidence of undeveloped self, which means
you WILL NEVER achieve your purpose in life.
If you still withhold forgiveness
and nurse revenge against your ex or anyone at all, or you constantly try to
prove to him/her how successful you can be without him/her or that he/she is a
failure or made a mistake to leave/reject you, be sure that you need help.
Your life is being controlled by
your ex.
If you are willing and ready to
get help, then SOSADM is where to turn to.
SOSADM - Science of
self-discovery and development, is an online course which will not only help
you manage your emotions, but will give you peace of mind, help you overcome
envy by putting you on the path of your purpose for life.
Registration for
September/October Session is on but will end on 12th of October, 2018.
To register, kindly pay N5, 000.
00 to this bank details: First Bank, 3056941299, Soule Stephen Toloushe.
Then Send proof of payment, as a
WhatsApp message to Stephen on: +2348163800077.
You can also call the same number
to confirm your payment.
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1. There will be Honorary
Certificate for each participant.
2. The first 40 people to
register will get a copy of IDENTIFYING AND OVERCOMING THE FRIENDLY FOE, a book
which helps in overcoming narcissism.
This is the lowest amount you can
acquire this knowledge. Take advantage of this now.
Kindly share with others.
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