WHY MOST PEOPLE DON’T FALL IN LOVE
Last night,
I was awake and I thought about how she fell in love with me.
How she
would cook from her father’s house, rode in the same car with him, and brought
the food to me in his office, where I worked, without him knowing. She was not
stupid, she was in love.
I also
thought about, how I fell in love with that lass, whose body tell tales of
Africa.
I remember
how I offered to go with her to saloon; a thing I never did before, how I was
willing to do anything for her, how all I wanted was to always have her around
me.
No doubt,
the times I fell in love and did things I never thought I could do were my
greatest moments in life, they remain my greatest experiences. They are assets
of incomparable values, even though none of the women loved me in return. My
career as a writer proves this to be true.
Life has
taught me this:
There
is nothing as sweet as the memories of love expressed, yet, there is no tragedy
worse than memories of love withheld.
Those who
meet with regret and bitterness, their love experiences, in which those they
love did not love them in return may never have been in love in the first
place. Perhaps, they are ignorant of how love works, and may not get the
benefits that comes with it.
Nowadays,
majority of people no longer fall in love. Such is a weakness, for which they
never want to be known.
Some people
will tell you they stand in love, but there is no such phenomenon as that.
You either
fall in love, or you don’t.
If you could
stand in love, be sure you are not in love with your partner, but yourself, for
which he/she is a tool.
Falling in
love will make you do things you never thought you could do for someone, you
will surely break your boundaries in love. If you are unwilling no compromise
anything in your relationship, just to make it work, you may be sure that
relationship is not built on love for your partner. I have loved, and I have
been loved, so from experience, I know exactly how it works.
If love is a
beautiful thing, why then do people shy away from falling in love?
The answer
is: ignorance on the subject of love, backed by NARCISSISM.
Narcissists
do not fall in love with people, reason of the fact that they are too
self-absorbed and only in love with themselves. Even when they claim to be in
love, their partners are always tools for self-satisfaction.
Nothing
makes people look more stupid than to fall in love with a narcissist, who does
not find them attractive. However a lot of people are in relationship with
Narcissists, yet do not know how to go about it, they are confused, but can’t
leave. Such people need to read HOW WE BECAME NARCISSISTS, a book on
narcissism, written one of African’s finest philosophers, Soul’e Rhymez.
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