11 ATTITUDES OF SELF-CENTERED PEOPLE ON SOCIAL MEDIA



1.      When you meet them for the very first time on social media, they talk about their excellent sides, what they like and dislike, works and achievements and might never ask you about yourself more than just your name and location
2.      For instance, if on Facebook, 55% of their pictures are selfies and their updates are about them, things they do and how they feel and they feel bad when people don’t like, comment or share them.
3.      They rarely like, comment or share other people’s personal pictures and updates, even when you like and comment on theirs, except you are very close to them.
4.      They always complain of tags and mentions; they prevent you from pasting on their walls and might never thank you for commenting on their updates.
5.      They ignore messages from people after looking at their profile pictures and find out they have nothing to gain from them.
6.      They unfriend or block the person that keeps tagging them on pictures and updates that they feel they don’t want, regardless of how good they are; they often complain of too much notifications.
7.      They get annoyed if they have about 100 notifications and only few were as a result of comment, likes on their updates.
8.      If on whatsApp and you add them to a group, they leave almost immediately if they don’t know anyone there and leave even faster if messages are much and none seem to recognize them.
9.      If they talk in groups, they only complain of how things affect them, but they rarely commend anything excellently done by others, they also might never contribute to benefit others. They often use “I” and “some of us” in their statements.
10.  If you send them message and they discover it’s a broadcast, they won’t respond to you, they won’t share and might tell you to stop sending them messages, delete your number or block you to prevent them from getting your messages. If they must share any message sent to them, then it will be because they personally like it and are in a very happy mood at the moment.
11.  They change their DP or profile pictures too often and rarely use someone else picture, except the person is their spouse, unknown picture with person or quote which they like or a family member.


If you find out you do any of the above things, you might do it for other reasons but there is no doubt self-centeredness is one of the reasons. It’s always in the subconscious mind. Self-centeredness is a very big problem to the world, many only care about how they feel alone without giving a damn about how others feel and this is why the world is getting worse by the day. When your life is all about you; how you feel, what you want and how you want things done alone, then you are ungodly and a problem to yourself as much as you are to everyone else. Please always try to take a break from yourself to focus on how the other person feels. The worst life to live, after not accepting Jesus Christ as your lord is a life that is all about you; a self-centered life.

Written by Soul'e Rhymez
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© 2016

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