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HOW TO MAKE MONEY FROM WHATSAPP

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I started making money from writing in 2018 and that was about 8 years after I started writing. I started writing officially in the year 2010. I got my first newspaper publication in the year 2011. What it meant was that I wrote for 8 years without making a penny from it.   However, it was obvious that I needed to start making money from writing when I wrote a poem titled “I AM TIRED OF WRITING” , I had every reason to be tired; doing a job for 9 years without earning is either because I was stupid, I was doing it for passion, or I did not know how to make money from it.   I was doing it for passion but I also did not know how to charge for it. I was afraid I will lose my audience if I began to charge for my work – this called for another form of education, which I acquired. I have gone on to write 11 books since then and it has been making money for me.   The most recent of the books is THE WHATSAPP MONEY-BAG, in which I expose the strategies I have been usin...

BE A CHAMPION

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Some of you are too weak; you love playing the victim. Organizing pity parties is your thing. But you know what? Life is going to continually box you to a corner and hammer you down to mediocrity. You can complain as you want but life does not respond to complaints, it responds only to prices.   Life does not respond to luck, so don't ever think you'd be lucky. If there is any phenomenon such as luck, be sure he does not attend pity party too. You have got to be strong! You have got to give it all it takes. You have got to keep trying, and if you fail, go at it again. Life will eventually get tired and give you what you want. Life loves strong people and rewards them but only after testing their strengths. If you are weak, you will not be rewarded.   I am one hell of a guy who has refused to let life box me to a corner. Everyone knows that I am a fighter! I have stood alone more times in my life than with people and no crowd has won against me. I always believe that ...

Why More Men Are Crazier About Sex Than Women

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It seems that there is a culture that makes it look as if neglecting certain emotions or pretending they are not there, as opposed to proper management is what makes men strong. This poor education contributes to why more men have fallen as a result of sex than women.   Young males are taught never to show emotions; when they fall and cry, some mother beats them and asks "why are you crying like a girl?" They say men should not cry. This grew out of the belief that crying is a weakness that must not be found in men. In reality, crying is strength. The more you withhold tears, the more you suffer from the pains that would have gone with those tears.   I was one boy whose emotions were also neglected; I struggled for acceptance as a kid. When my sexual feelings began to develop, it was hard for me to control; it was controlling me. I once begged a girl for sex, she turned me down. I can't even remember that girl now, but if you ask me, I will tell you that it was my...

WHY BEING IN LOVE IS BETTER THAN BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP (II)

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  If you are in a romantic relationship and sincerely love and feel at peace with another person, then you need to reconsider the future of the relationship even if you are engaged to be married. Check if that other person sincerely loves you. Do not resist the person, but avoid cheating on your current partner.   If the other person loves you sincerely and you feel the same way towards him/her, much so that you do not have to hide your weaknesses from each other or lie about being perfect, then end your current relationship. However, before you do that, be sure what you feel is love and that the person loves you as much as you feel too.   Being in love is much more important than being in a relationship, but staying committed is more important than being in love. However, it is difficult and near impossible to stay committed to a person that one does not truly love. So in the end, being in love is more important than being in a relationship and being committed. ...

WHY BEING IN LOVE IS BETTER THAN BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP (I)

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  The love between parents often extends to their children and so is the animosity between them. I suffered a lack of parental love growing up, owing largely to the fact that my parents did not love each other. They were never together.   I don't want to do the same to my kids - I want to love and care for them. I thought the best way I can change that was to get married to someone I love and who love me as much as I love her. All I wanted was one life with one woman and let it go at that.   My desire to allow my kids to have love from both parents is among the things that made me realize that being in love is more important than being in a romantic relationship. I am well above 30 years old, and I am not in a relationship. Not only that, I have not had a romantic relationship for a long time.   Does it mean women are not available? Far from it. So why am I not in a relationship despite I have written books on romantic relationships and helped a lot of pe...

HOW REFUSING TO FALL IN LOVE CAN MAKE YOU UNSUCCESSFUL

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If you have had any situation wherein you loved someone so much, despite the person was not your spec,   and you could not tell why the feeling came, then God has spoken to you. If you did not express the feeling, you have disobeyed Him.   God speaks to everyone, regardless of their religions and one of the commonest ways he does it is through love. If you express the love you feel to a person or persons, even if it makes no sense to do so, then you would have done the will of God without hearing him speak.   The reason why many people never become great in anything is that they are specialists at disregarding and sometimes suppressing their urge to love whenever it does not seem to benefit them. They will never express their love to those they feel it for, except it makes sense to the public at large,   or they are sure of being loved in return.   Suppressing the urge to love for any reason at all may explain why there are more successful men known ...

TFC 3: Why Zlatan Went Up & Mario Went Down

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In the world of Football, two guys promised to take the game to the next stage with their talents around the year 2010, they are Zlatan Ibrahimovic the Scandinavian Giant, and Mario Balotelli the Italian Mafia as people refer to him because of his on and off-pitch behaviors. Both players played for the same team – Inter Milan in Italy at some points. Ten years down the line now, the younger one – Mario went into oblivion while the older one - Zlatan, who should by all standards be retired is currently, the top goalscorer in Italian Serie A. What a twist of fate for the two talented and enigmatic superstars.   Both of them were known for their enigmatic personalities that many people see as arrogance. However, while both of them may be confused to have a similar trait, there is a lot of difference between the two that may have marked the difference in their careers as it now stands. While Zlatan Ibrahimovic will retire and be recognized as a legend in the clubs he has played for, ...

WHEN “BLACK” IS RACISM & “WHITE” IS NOT (Why PSG Vs Istanbul Basaksehir Match should not have been dumped)

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  Last night, 8/12/2020, the match between PSG of France & Istanbul Basaksehir of Turkey was postponed because the fourth official by the name of Sebastian Coltescu called Basaksehir’s Cameroonian’s assistant manager, Pierre Webo “black”. It is ridiculous that such a high-profile match would be stopped for that reason. What I see is black-skinned people playing victims to get certain privileges and that is not the best. Do not get me wrong – there is racism and most black people face it, but I do not see racism in being called black. I am an African, a fucking proud African and I am proud of being black – I can never consider being called a black man an insult.   Have you seen the whites get annoyed when you call them “whites” no matter what circumstance leads to it? I have not seen one reported in the media to date. Why is being called “black” a racist remark and being called “white” is not? If I live in Europe, I will make the whites want to be black because no mat...

HOW UGLINESS GAVE ME LIFE (PART 1)

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As long as life exists, there always will be people that look beautiful and those that look ugly – I, fortunately, belong to the latter. I grew up getting the worst treatments because of how I looked. Nobody liked me; I had a not-well shaped head and big lips – I was nicknamed ridiculously based on my look. It was hard growing up simply because I looked ugly.   My secondary school days were the worst of my days with bullies, both physically and verbally – many people bullied me because they did not like how I looked. I got back from school daily having another bully story to tell. Talk about the girls, I was a complete outcast. I always feared that girls would never like me.   When I got to sss2, my fear became a reality; I fell in love with one girl named Esther who joined us in sss2. She appeared to possess all I wanted in a woman, and being one goal-getter, I went for her despite I knew that the odds of getting her were very slim.   She was a queen and I was the ...

HOW UGLINESS GAVE ME LIFE (PART TWO)

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In part one of this article, I wrote about my experience in secondary school – how I was too ugly to attract a girl. However, as time went on, I realized that being as ugly as people considered me to be was a blessing from God.   When someone saw my brother’s photo and how handsome he looked, she asked - why are you ugly and your brother is handsome? My response was simple and significant – ponder over it before passing on because it is the soul of this article. I said, ‘God gave each person what he needs.’   My brother may need to be handsome to be who he is, I do not need that. That is not to undermine handsomeness, but to show that it is not what we do not have that stops us, but what we have and do not know how to use.   People letting me know that I was ugly was a blessing in disguise – I needed to find my strength and it helped me to know early enough that my strength was not in my look. This knowledge made me look within to find out what can make people admir...

HOW UGLINESS GAVE ME LIFE (PART 3)

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  Many people see being ugly as a weakness, but while it may be a weakness in its actual sense, in my case it is a blessing in disguise. The story I am about to tell may now help you to stop seeing what God has blessed you with as weaknesses because you have not yet seen the blessings. I have been explaining from the very first part of this article how ugliness gave me life but in this part, I will be taking you through a perspective that you can easily relate with and understand. I grew up in Egbe, Kogi state in an age where there was no internet and I had no access to a phone. The only fun for a guy like me was playing football in the hot sun, and chasing after the girls in the evening – that was all there was of many growing boys’ lives then. Some of my mates became premature fathers and had their education halted. It was a reality that I did not want to experience but one that I did not know how to escape. It was at this time that the value of my look that too many people c...

HOW UGLINESS GAVE ME LIFE (PART 4)

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  One day, I was standing in front of my office alongside an estate agent, as we were discussing, one boy passed. He kept quiet for some time as the boy passed by and said to me “I love the way that guy walks.” That was the same guy that my guys sometimes mock for his walking style that they consider awkward. I also, remember how well I was mocked for having big lips when I was growing up; it seems everyone hated me for it and I was made to believe it was a weakness – I always wished I did not have them. The same lips have now become my center of attraction and love.   I remember a lady calling me an alien because I refused to kiss her. More women have made more attempts to kiss me than I have done to them, but while some got their wishes, many did not. They may not say it but their actions often show that they love my big and sexy lips.   Some time ago I was reading an interview where Nadia Buhari, the beautiful Ghanian actress was asked what she would like to cha...