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WHY THE GOOD LADIES ARE UNMARRIED

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Generally speaking, the prime of any woman is between ages 16 and 28. It is a time when they are superstars, and if they carry themselves well within this age range, they will attract an average of two serious wooers weekly. If any lady within this age range stays a month without a serious wooer, then she must know she has a lot of problems. Moreover, if any woman gets past this age range without attracting a life partner, it will be more difficult in subsequent ages to do so. Unfortunately, it is in this same age range that most women waste away, thinking they have all the time to waste and still, gain it back. There are two major problems that intelligent and classy ladies within this age range battle with, they are: 1.        Unavailability 2.        Inaccessibility Unavailability: the majority of ladies though with good manners and well-developed selves are unfortunately unavailable. At an age whe...

MANY LIKES AND COMMENTS ON SOCIAL MEDIA COULD BE A SIGN OF A WASTED LIFE

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Recently, one of the young men around me observed that my Facebook likes and comments decreased. He asked "Tolu e b like say you don dey unblow" (It is like you are becoming unpopular). He continued saying that he observed that my likes and comments on Facebook has reduced from what used to be 200 down to 5 to 15. I smiled and told him it is not a problem. It is definitely not. I still know how to get likes if I want many of them, but the truth is that at the level I am now, likes and comments are not what I desire. This is the irony of the whole thing. When I got more likes and comments, I was less productive; I exhausted more energy and creativity and got little or nothing in return. But, since I changed my focus, everything else changed. I got lesser likes and comments, I exhaust lesser energy and creativity, but I am now more productive and got more in return, even in terms of cash. Something changed, what is it?   I discovered my purpose f...

HOW FIRST SESSION OF SOSADM PROVED TO ME THAT WOMEN ARE TRULY GREAT

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The just concluded session of Science of Self-Discovery And development #SOSADM, no doubt, changed my perspective about women, because all that registered are women. It will be a sacrilege, if I refuse to tell the world about this. Even when there was a promotion for five people to participate without pay, out of about 12 people that showed interest, only five of them are males, out of them, only three made it to the class and two of them graduated.   As it stands, we have 8 graduating students, out of which six are females. This signifies, beyond any reasonable room for doubt, that more women are interested in self-development than men, hereby dispelling my ill-thought assumption that women are not interested in self-development. It occurs to me now that to be a man is overrated in this society. Most of us do not do our jobs, and we put too many loads on women, most times blaming them for what we should do. We have failed! What is perceived as failure o...

THE GREATEST NEWS ABOUT FIRST SESSION OF SOSADM

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The greatest news about the just concluded SOSADM is that two of my ex-lovers, one of which is now married, participated. It delights me, not only because they are great in their own ways and are obviously doing great and still maintained the level of faith they had in me from the time we were dating, but because it proves true the authenticity of one of the most important lessons taught in the class. It was taught in the class, and not without evidences that if you still keep grudges with your ex-lover, regardless of the reason the relationship packed up, much so that you can’t see what will benefit them and let them have it, it shows you lack self-development. However, these two ladies are exceptional women for opting in. Do you think it is easy to attend a class where your ex is the lecturer? Perhaps you may, but definitely not a course of this nature that will not only expose your weaknesses to your ex, but also put him in position to give you instructions on ...

HOW THE MAIDEN OF #SOSADM WENT DOWN

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The first session of SOSADM – Science of self-discovery and development, which has been confirmed by some of our past students as the best form of education, one which no school in the world offer, has been completed. It lasted for three weeks in October, 2018. Being the maiden session, and with little advertisements, which did not go beyond the founder’s area of influence, not up to five persons are expected to take part in it, but more than 20 people registered, 17 of which made it to the class, out of which 5 were free of charge as promised. Out of 17 students that made it to the class, 9 students were expelled along the line for lack of desire and disobedience to instructions; only 8 were able to complete the course, while only 7 of them were certified. Let it not surprise you that students, even those that paid are expelled. It is a part of the terms and conditions, which all students agreed to. For us at School of Life Academy, it is not just about making mo...

WHY IT MAY BE WRONG TO “BE YOURSELF”

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I have a writing style called: “truthiness to self”. This style was so profound that I gave series of interviews on it. However, I stopped talking about it or promoting it for some time when I realized I was not qualified to adopt it and adopting it at that stage could be eternally detrimental to achieving my purpose for living. I needed to discover and develop myself before I can adopt the philosophy and use it most effectively, not only for the benefit of myself, but for others too. A lot of people will say “I am just being myself, and you have to love me the way I am” even when it is obvious they are only creating alibis to avoid working on their weaknesses. Gold is gold, refined or not, but if it stays unrefined in the name of being true to itself, it will never be of any value; moreover, the price will be reduced and it can never be used for its purpose by staying   unrefined. This is exactly what people do to themselves, whenever they admit being themselves when...

HOW MANY PEOPLE RUIN THEMSELVES WITH SOCIAL MEDIA

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  Gone are those days when the world was a global village, now, through the aid of internet and different social media platforms, the world is a global room, a room which gets smaller by the day.   The only way to stay out of this room, but perhaps still remain in the village is to stay off the internet and all social media platforms. These platforms are created for the purpose of making the world a better place, but it can also be used as a tool of evil perpetuation by a lot of people, and a source of self-destruction to billions. The latter is the point I am trying to emphasize here. While only a few people know the importance of social media and have continued to use it with moderation and sense of purpose, billions of others have resorted to abuse of such platforms in various ways. A lot of people post just anything that comes to their minds on their social media platforms, and the majority of others pull several self-destructive stunts in order to gain att...

DOES YOUR EX STILL CONTROL YOUR LIFE?

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From research and study of hundreds of people in the past four years, I have discovered that the majority of people wish their exes and those that rejected them bad. Moreover, they seem to always have a lot to prove to them. In majority of instances, the successes of their exes make them feel like failures. I often see many intended to be funny, but stupid jokes about hurting ones ex, just to prove one can do well without them and that they made mistakes leaving them. These jokes actually explain the exact state of mind of the majority of people. Oftentimes I see people who have sworn never come into terms with their exes; they see them as enemies and never want to have anything to do with them, no matter how little. This sort of decision makes me question their sanity. Why do people often see their exes as their enemies? The answer is obvious, to create alibis for their unwillingness to work on their own weaknesses, which their exes' misfortunes will he...