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WHY IT MAY BE WRONG TO “BE YOURSELF”

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I have a writing style called: “truthiness to self”. This style was so profound that I gave series of interviews on it. However, I stopped talking about it or promoting it for some time when I realized I was not qualified to adopt it and adopting it at that stage could be eternally detrimental to achieving my purpose for living. I needed to discover and develop myself before I can adopt the philosophy and use it most effectively, not only for the benefit of myself, but for others too. A lot of people will say “I am just being myself, and you have to love me the way I am” even when it is obvious they are only creating alibis to avoid working on their weaknesses. Gold is gold, refined or not, but if it stays unrefined in the name of being true to itself, it will never be of any value; moreover, the price will be reduced and it can never be used for its purpose by staying   unrefined. This is exactly what people do to themselves, whenever they admit being themselves when...

HOW MANY PEOPLE RUIN THEMSELVES WITH SOCIAL MEDIA

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  Gone are those days when the world was a global village, now, through the aid of internet and different social media platforms, the world is a global room, a room which gets smaller by the day.   The only way to stay out of this room, but perhaps still remain in the village is to stay off the internet and all social media platforms. These platforms are created for the purpose of making the world a better place, but it can also be used as a tool of evil perpetuation by a lot of people, and a source of self-destruction to billions. The latter is the point I am trying to emphasize here. While only a few people know the importance of social media and have continued to use it with moderation and sense of purpose, billions of others have resorted to abuse of such platforms in various ways. A lot of people post just anything that comes to their minds on their social media platforms, and the majority of others pull several self-destructive stunts in order to gain att...

DOES YOUR EX STILL CONTROL YOUR LIFE?

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From research and study of hundreds of people in the past four years, I have discovered that the majority of people wish their exes and those that rejected them bad. Moreover, they seem to always have a lot to prove to them. In majority of instances, the successes of their exes make them feel like failures. I often see many intended to be funny, but stupid jokes about hurting ones ex, just to prove one can do well without them and that they made mistakes leaving them. These jokes actually explain the exact state of mind of the majority of people. Oftentimes I see people who have sworn never come into terms with their exes; they see them as enemies and never want to have anything to do with them, no matter how little. This sort of decision makes me question their sanity. Why do people often see their exes as their enemies? The answer is obvious, to create alibis for their unwillingness to work on their own weaknesses, which their exes' misfortunes will he...

SURELY, NOT EVERYBODY WILL BE GREAT

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Most people like the word “greatness” because it sounds good, but the truth is that they can never be great, even if greatness is free. They know everything that it takes to become great, but will not do them. They keep wishing, but are never willing. Unluckily for them, even if one is destined to be great, he has to pay some price, not just hope or wish. Some of them waste their times praying to God for greatness, believing God will give them what they are not willing to pay the price for. In reality, people who only wish for what they could pay the price to get are foolish, people who envy those who have paid the price for certain success, which they refuse to pay the price are more foolish, but the most foolish people are those that try to bring successful people down at all cost, as a cover-up for their own inadequacies and lack of ambition. These are the same people I referred to when I said this: “I look around me and see how some people are dying, even though...

HOW TO CONTROL YOUR SEX URGE

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Sometimes ago while discussing with some of my guys around; we got talking about a lady on the street, who was painted as sexually loosed by the guys. I confessed I had a feeling to have sex with her and everyone around shouted and castigated me. They seemed surprised that I admitted that. I am known to often talk about my ability to control my sex urge and it surprised them that I felt sex urge for the young lady. I had to explain to them the difference between having sex urge and being able to control it. Surely, they confused my ability to control my sex urge for lack of it. Contrary to their assumptions that I do not have sex urge, I am one or the highly sexed persons around. If I do not have urge for sex, then I am sick. Moreover, for me to do my best works, my sex urge must be 100%. There is no man in the world that will have the same level of sex urge I have without the right sex education and not become rapist or a sex addict. As a proof of th...

HOW TO OVERCOME ANY FORM OF ADDICTION

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A lot of people find it hard to break certain habits, even though they do not like to continue with them, but the harder they try, the more difficult it becomes. Some feel they are cursed with such habits, and majority have accepted them as parts of them, hereby creating alibis to protect them. Due to this inability to break away from certain bad habits, majority of people hates to have them pointed out to them; they meet with hostility, anyone who talks about them. They seem to suffer from the unknown, but if they do not find solutions to their problems, it will be them to blame in the end. You may have found out that you always have the right thing in your mind, but most times, you do the wrong things, then after you have done them, it occurs to you that they are not exactly what you wanted to do. This may explain the reason why majority of people blame the devil whenever they are caught doing the wrong things. The truth is that is not the devil! This is the sam...

ACRIMONY; FROM THE PSYCHOLOGIST’S PERSPECTIVE

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Acrimony; from the psychologist’s perspective is   a review of the movie ACRIMONY, a psychological thriller, which has gone viral for some time. This review contains some vital details you might have missed in the movie. In it, you will find out with facts, who is actually guilty and why. Download and read here. https://okadabooks.com/book/about/acrim ony_the_psychologists_perspective/20711