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DOES YOUR EX STILL CONTROL YOUR LIFE?

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From research and study of hundreds of people in the past four years, I have discovered that the majority of people wish their exes and those that rejected them bad. Moreover, they seem to always have a lot to prove to them. In majority of instances, the successes of their exes make them feel like failures. I often see many intended to be funny, but stupid jokes about hurting ones ex, just to prove one can do well without them and that they made mistakes leaving them. These jokes actually explain the exact state of mind of the majority of people. Oftentimes I see people who have sworn never come into terms with their exes; they see them as enemies and never want to have anything to do with them, no matter how little. This sort of decision makes me question their sanity. Why do people often see their exes as their enemies? The answer is obvious, to create alibis for their unwillingness to work on their own weaknesses, which their exes' misfortunes will he...

SURELY, NOT EVERYBODY WILL BE GREAT

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Most people like the word “greatness” because it sounds good, but the truth is that they can never be great, even if greatness is free. They know everything that it takes to become great, but will not do them. They keep wishing, but are never willing. Unluckily for them, even if one is destined to be great, he has to pay some price, not just hope or wish. Some of them waste their times praying to God for greatness, believing God will give them what they are not willing to pay the price for. In reality, people who only wish for what they could pay the price to get are foolish, people who envy those who have paid the price for certain success, which they refuse to pay the price are more foolish, but the most foolish people are those that try to bring successful people down at all cost, as a cover-up for their own inadequacies and lack of ambition. These are the same people I referred to when I said this: “I look around me and see how some people are dying, even though...

HOW TO CONTROL YOUR SEX URGE

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Sometimes ago while discussing with some of my guys around; we got talking about a lady on the street, who was painted as sexually loosed by the guys. I confessed I had a feeling to have sex with her and everyone around shouted and castigated me. They seemed surprised that I admitted that. I am known to often talk about my ability to control my sex urge and it surprised them that I felt sex urge for the young lady. I had to explain to them the difference between having sex urge and being able to control it. Surely, they confused my ability to control my sex urge for lack of it. Contrary to their assumptions that I do not have sex urge, I am one or the highly sexed persons around. If I do not have urge for sex, then I am sick. Moreover, for me to do my best works, my sex urge must be 100%. There is no man in the world that will have the same level of sex urge I have without the right sex education and not become rapist or a sex addict. As a proof of th...

HOW TO OVERCOME ANY FORM OF ADDICTION

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A lot of people find it hard to break certain habits, even though they do not like to continue with them, but the harder they try, the more difficult it becomes. Some feel they are cursed with such habits, and majority have accepted them as parts of them, hereby creating alibis to protect them. Due to this inability to break away from certain bad habits, majority of people hates to have them pointed out to them; they meet with hostility, anyone who talks about them. They seem to suffer from the unknown, but if they do not find solutions to their problems, it will be them to blame in the end. You may have found out that you always have the right thing in your mind, but most times, you do the wrong things, then after you have done them, it occurs to you that they are not exactly what you wanted to do. This may explain the reason why majority of people blame the devil whenever they are caught doing the wrong things. The truth is that is not the devil! This is the sam...

ACRIMONY; FROM THE PSYCHOLOGIST’S PERSPECTIVE

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Acrimony; from the psychologist’s perspective is   a review of the movie ACRIMONY, a psychological thriller, which has gone viral for some time. This review contains some vital details you might have missed in the movie. In it, you will find out with facts, who is actually guilty and why. Download and read here. https://okadabooks.com/book/about/acrim ony_the_psychologists_perspective/20711

FIGHTING THE SHADOWS

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Have you heard about FIGHTING THE SHADOWS? It is a piece of intellectual work which explains the reasons why it is harder to fight corruption in Government and manipulations in Religion, especially in a country like Nigeria. It was the lessons in this piece of work that changed my perspective for good, about a lot of things, and took my career from what it was to what it is and to what it is to be It is a must-read for everyone, who wishes not only to be free from the shackles of corrupt politicians and fake religion leaders, but also to live a purposeful life. There is a magnificent reward for all that read this work, it is the privilege of becoming gods among mere men, even without money fame or power. This piece of work only cost #400 on OkadaBooks. Click on the link below to download and read. https://okadabooks.com/book/about/fighting_the_shadows_/20739 Kindly share with friends

ARE YOU INTENTIONALLY WASTING YOUR LIFE?

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According to The Exceptional Woman, a book written by Soul’e Rhymez, “The lives of majority of people, even with great career, money, fame and power, are in total disagreement with their purposes for living. They travel in opposite direction of the ways that leads to the fulfillment of their purposes in life. If they end that way, their lives and all they possess would have been nothing, but a waste. Such a life, with all one needs to live fine, but without purpose is best compared to a clueless traveler, who has all he needed to get to his destination, such as fuel, good vehicle, enough choices of food, and the right people to accompany him on his journey, but does not know his destination. Everything he has would have been a waste, because he won’t get to his destination, he will just be moving, because he needs to move, in the end, it would have been better not to have traveled (being born) at all.” Think about this, and examine yourself, then you may find out, if ...

HAVE YOU LOST YOUR MIND?

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If I ask you this question, you are most likely going to be angry, because it appears like insult. Loss of mind is synonymous to mad people, but a lot of people have lost their minds, even though they are not identifiable by the same plain signs that separate deranged men. Moreover, and this statement will be of significant importance to the person who wishes to know the tap root of corruption and bad leadership in many African countries. The worst situation in life is to become rich, famous and powerful, yet lack mind control. There are evidences that such people will and have always been disasters, not only to themselves, but also to other people. Such people are like dirt in the wind; they are tossed to and fro by different opinions; they are more or less, mad men chasing nothing. Their lives, even with the material possessions, are without definite purpose. This predicament prevents people from being in charge of their lives. This truth is confirmed ...

SULE; THE UGLY CHECHE (The Battle to Gain Self-esteem)

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Some time ago, a good friend of mine from North America sent me a message in form of joke, saying "hi, Ugly Boy” and I replied, "hello Beautiful Lady” without giving it a real thought. Some years before now, it would have got me thinking and depressed, blaming God for making me ugly and perhaps my mom for settling for my father, whom I look exactly like. Talking about some years ago; when I was still in high school; a remarkable event took place; a self-esteem war that changed my name to "Sule; The Ugly Cheche." It was a cloudy morning in the school premises, after a show of shame with a group of girls, my classmates, who had to fight for their beautiful friend, Beatrice, whom I became an embarrassment to just for asking her out. I was in SSS 3 and preparing for my final exams when it happened, they raised the chorus " Sule; Ugly Cheche " and invited junior students to back them up, their song was a sharp arrow, it pierced my heart and...