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SULE; THE UGLY CHECHE (The Battle to Gain Self-esteem)

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Some time ago, a good friend of mine from North America sent me a message in form of joke, saying "hi, Ugly Boy” and I replied, "hello Beautiful Lady” without giving it a real thought. Some years before now, it would have got me thinking and depressed, blaming God for making me ugly and perhaps my mom for settling for my father, whom I look exactly like. Talking about some years ago; when I was still in high school; a remarkable event took place; a self-esteem war that changed my name to "Sule; The Ugly Cheche." It was a cloudy morning in the school premises, after a show of shame with a group of girls, my classmates, who had to fight for their beautiful friend, Beatrice, whom I became an embarrassment to just for asking her out. I was in SSS 3 and preparing for my final exams when it happened, they raised the chorus " Sule; Ugly Cheche " and invited junior students to back them up, their song was a sharp arrow, it pierced my heart and...

WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT SOSADM

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SOSADM – Science of Self-Discovery And Development Masterclass, is an Online Course, which helps in self-Discovery, Self-Mastery and leads to fulfillment of purpose. It is a form of education, which is not being offered in any University in the world, yet, it is more important than all that they offer. Unavailability of this course is one major reason for the universal shortage of good leadersfrom which the world has been suffering.   Surely, any fool can gain positions, but being a good leader is different. Lack of this crucial form of education, especially in the Universities, is responsible for the debasement of mankind from the status of god, which he was made to be, to the status of animals, which he was made to control. Schools teach everything, except this: self-discovery and development, which is the most important aspect of any form of education Moreover, unavailability of this form of education, especially in Africa, explains why the blacks often l...

THE SECRET OF OVERCOMING WRITER’S BLOCK

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Writer’s block is real and a lot of creative minds, not only writers, suffer from it. However, I do not suffer from it. I get inspiration to write anything I want to write, whether or not I have the required education or/and experience. So many people started projects which they are unable to complete, because they do not have the required inspiration to do so. This is writer’s block at work – they no longer receive inspiration concerning that which they started. However, writer’s block is not natural; it usually occurs because of breakage of certain spiritual principles. If you suffer from it, be sure you are your own problem. You must have caused it by harboring wrong emotions in your mind, the chief of which is FORGIVENESS. Those that withhold forgiveness, or keep grudges show great evidence that they haven’t developed themselves. Forgiveness is a spiritual aspect of self-discovery and development. Only a few things in life blocks direct inspiration from ...

THE SEVENTH BASIC EVIL – ENVY

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One of the great lessons that will be taught in SOSADM is how to overcome the seventh basic evil. In this you will be introduced to one of his sons, and perhaps the most dangerous of them all – ENVY. Envy is a subtle enemy from which a lot of people suffer, without knowing it. It is difficult to admit having it or begin to work on it, because it is not in the conscious mind, it hides itself in the subconscious mind of people, where it controls them. Envy is the world’s most dangerous emotion. As a proof of this statement, it induced the first murder ever recorded in the history of mankind – the case of Cane and Abel in the Bible. The most dangerous set of people are people who combine low self-esteem with envy. The mixture of these two is a weapon of mass destruction. However, people who suffer from it do not know they suffer from it. Envy naturally puts people in unhealthy rivalry with those they envy. In reality, these people may be their best friends who ...

I OWN NOTHING; I DESERVE NOTHING

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Yesterday, 5 th of September was my birthday, but unlike the previous ones, I did not inform anyone about it, I did not post my yearly speech and did not change my DP on all my social media platforms as I usually do on my birthdays. Birthday is something that almost everyone looks forward to; it is only day in a year that some people get to be celebrated, it is nothing different with me. However, Infinite Intelligence told me not to inform anyone about it.    As his student, I knew there was a lesson for me, which will only come after I had obeyed. I could not wait for my birthday to pass, so I could get the lesson. At the early hours of my birthday, Infinite Intelligence began to speak to me on why he told me to be quiet about my birthday. The reason was for me to learn an important lesson in life, maybe not for me, but for others.   But let us begin with these questions: Why should everyone celebrate my birthday? How many people’s birthdays ...

HOW TO BE BEAUTIFUL FOR ETERNITY

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When God made the world, he said it is beautiful, but it seems the world has become rather ugly, despite the beautiful inventions. We have refused to invest in the beauty of humanity. Only we can make the world continue to be beautiful, but for us to be able to do that we must invest in our own beauties first. Jesus Christ compared this sort of beauty to salt and light. Investing in self-beauty is one investment, which a lot of people ignore. Do not confuse this to wearing beautiful apparels and applying make-ups. It is far from it. This has nothing to do with the physical beauty of individuals. Majority of people spend all their resources on expensive apparels, jewelries and many other beauty accessories, with the belief that they make them beautiful, but while this beautifies the body, it has nothing to do with the beauty of self and humanity. The beauty of humanity begins with the development of the minds of individuals. Leaving their minds unkempt is a...

HOW TO AVOID BECOMING AN UNEDUCATED LITERATE

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We all know that illiteracy is a disease, but not many of us know that there is a disease worse than illiteracy, it is: literacy without education. A lot of people confuse literacy with being educated; but they are not the same. You may be able to speak the best of English language, yet be uneducated. Literacy is the ability to read, write and communicate in the official language of your community. Anybody can be a literate, but to be educated takes a lot of efforts. To be educated means to have drawn out the potentials from within, in connection with passions, and develop them for the benefit of oneself and at least, the community in which one lives. Going by this definition, you may understand that even with PhDs some people are still uneducated. If you go through life suffering from inferiority complex, because you are not a student or a graduate of any higher institution, then you do not know the meaning of education, neither are you educated. However, y...